Showing posts with label happy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label happy. Show all posts

Friday, January 8, 2016

Autism can be complicated.

A much needed update on my sweet Dexter. 
Something I have learned over the past 2.5 years of Dexter's life is to always go with my gut.  I have always thought there was something going on with Dexter, and it was more than just a virus.  And in between all the blood work, doctor visits, specialists, and sleepless nights I knew there was something else going on with my sweet little boy. 

In November I sought out a second opinion about what I have continued to notice with Dexter.  I am so grateful for Dr. Heather Harrison and her listening ear.  Because of her in December we were able to have an EEG and MRI of his brain done.  It was noticed in the EEG that he was having seizures. 
We then were sent to a Neurologist.  We finally got into the Neurologist yesterday.  Dexter has Autism induced Epilepsy.  This is common with kids with Autism. (33% of kids with autism have epilepsy) The doctor (Dr. Nelson in Provo) was very knowledgeable with children with autism and he was great at answering our questions.  Dexter is going to be starting a daily medication that he will take most likely forever.  The medication will need to be adjusted, like all medications, as he grows.  There are side effects, but hopefully we will see minimal.  He goes back for follow-ups monthly.  Then twice a year visits once the medications are stable. 

Dexter is autistic, and epilepsy is a side effect.  Most likely his sleep issues are from autism and also the seizures.  We are hopefully that once the seizures are under control his sleep will improve.  There are a lot doctors who don't know about autism, but there is a lot doctors know about seizures.  So we are grateful for that.  Over stimulation is a primary cause of seizures for children on the spectrum.  We need to start being more aware of what overstimulates Dexter and what makes his brain seize and body shake. 

Here is a good article explaining the links and what Dexter has been dealing with since birth:
https://www.autismspeaks.org/family-services/epilepsy

Dexter is a very strong little boy to have been dealing with this since birth.  He has been dealing with night terrors, fevers, failure to thrive, growth issues, headaches, daily seizures, little sleep, and psychotic episodes (uncontrollable screaming, shaking, not knowing where he is, hallucinations, etc).  But if you know Dexter you will notice he is a very happy kid.  This is a huge blessing.  I am so glad he hasn't lost his sense of happiness through all of these trials.  

Thank you for all your support.  We know our family is complicated but Will and I honestly wouldn't have it any other way, we don't know any other way. 

Sunday, August 17, 2014

The Good Day

Max had a great day yesterday. 
A day of no tantrums is ALWAYS a good day.
Nothing huge happened.  It was just a good day.
He called me "Mommy" for the first time.  That was amazing.  He looked at me and said "Mommy!"  We hugged and he knew he did something very good.  
He woke up after a solid night of sleep.  We are still giving him melatonin each night, but that 1mg has changed our sleep and our life. 
He loves his new sand box, and asks to play outside multiple times during the day.  He is in his happy place.  He zones out.  He talks to himself in his own language.  It sounds a little bit like the language from Lord of the Rings.  He is so happy. 

We went to Costco.  There were no melt downs, no tantrum in the middle of isle 3, and he stayed by the cart the whole time.  In the checkout lane he pointed to Will and Said "Dad", and then looked at me and said "Mom" and then pointed at Dexter and said "the B!"  He likes to say "the B"!

We went to our neighborhood party and Max showed everyone his belly, touched a girls shirt that had flowers on it,  and spun in circles for almost an hour.  As he grows he gets more clumsy.  He trips over his feet and falls all the time.  He didn't interact with other kids who were playing but he did run around, smile, giggle and even ate some chips.  Chips are his new found food of choice. 

Max was happy.  He was himself.  His special self. 
These days make me realize how happy Max is.  How the smallest things are huge for him.  How going for a drive and pointing out every single MACK truck we pass is the best part of his day.